The Lyric That Laughed: Waylon Jennings’ Friendly Jab at Willie Nelson That Country Fans Still Can’t Forget
They were brothers, outlaws, rivals, and poets. Together, Waylon Jennings and Willie Nelson reshaped country music—defiant in denim, wrapped in smoke and rhythm. But beneath the friendship that spanned decades was a current of playful mischief, and nowhere did it shine brighter than in a single line from a lesser-known Jennings track—a line that made millions of fans laugh, then wonder.
It came in 1984, buried in the second verse of “Don’t Think I’m Gonna Feel That Way Again,” a song never released as a single, never chart-topping, but suddenly a cult favorite among outlaw purists. In his familiar baritone, Waylon sang:
“I tried Willie’s ways, but I’m too mean to pray,
So I drink and let God sort me later.”
The line, tossed off almost casually, caused a ripple among fans. At first listen, it felt like a joke—just Waylon being Waylon, poking fun at his old friend and fellow outlaw. But those who knew the history heard something more—a love letter wrapped in a punchline, a testament to a bond forged not just in music, but in survival.
Brothers in Rebellion
The Jennings–Nelson dynamic is the stuff of country legend. They were pioneers of the outlaw country movement in the 1970s, a rebellion against the polished Nashville sound that sought to control every note and lyric. Waylon, with his thundering voice and rebellious streak, was the storm; Willie, with his philosophical calm and braided hair, was the monk in the middle of it.
They recorded together. Toured together. Partied and prayed—sometimes in the same breath. And yet, for all their similarities, they were vastly different men.
“Willie would write about forgiveness,” Waylon once said in a 1993 interview. “I’d write about not needing it.”
Their friendship was built on contrast: Waylon’s cynicism and Willie’s optimism. Waylon’s battles with addiction and anger, Willie’s peace through poetry and pot. The tension made their duets magnetic. Their friendship, however, was rooted in something quieter—mutual respect.
The Line That Stirred the Dust
So when Waylon delivered that now-famous jab—”I tried Willie’s ways, but I’m too mean to pray”—it hit like a cowboy boot to the gut.
Radio hosts had a field day. One Texas DJ played the clip on loop and joked, “Well, there goes their next duet.” But behind the scenes, there was no feud. In fact, it was Willie himself who reportedly called Waylon the day after hearing the song and left a simple voicemail:
“Mean or not, you’re still my brother. And God listens to you whether you want Him to or not.”
The voicemail was later played during a tribute segment on Austin City Limits. The crowd roared with laughter—and then applause. It was pure Willie: warmth under wit.
A Deeper Meaning?
Still, fans continued to dissect the lyric. Was it just a jab? Or was it Waylon’s way of expressing something deeper—something about their friendship, their philosophies, or even his own regret?
According to Jessi Colter, Waylon’s widow and a legend in her own right, the lyric wasn’t written in mockery. In a 2007 interview, she said:
“Waylon loved Willie’s soul. He envied the peace Willie carried with him. That line—he wrote it after a rough night on the road. He wasn’t mocking. He was aching.”
It was true. In the early 1980s, Waylon was wrestling with personal demons. Substance abuse, exhaustion from the road, and the weight of fame were pressing hard. Willie, meanwhile, had found relative calm in his ranch in Luck, Texas. He meditated, played golf, and wrote gentle ballads about rainbows and redemption.
To Waylon, Willie represented a kind of spiritual freedom he couldn’t reach. And so he joked about it—in the only language he knew: a song.
The Response We Never Heard
What many don’t know is that Willie Nelson reportedly wrote a response verse, never released, to Waylon’s lyric. According to a 2016 biography by country historian Travis B. Dean, the verse was included in an early draft of a duet called “Back When Whiskey Made the Rules.” It went:
“You can cuss at the sky or kneel in the mud,
But we all pray, Waylon—some just call it luck.”
It was never recorded, perhaps because Waylon passed before they could. But the existence of that verse only adds to the mystique of their relationship—a dialogue that continued through lyrics, across years and lifetimes.
More Than Music
Their jabs were never mean-spirited. They were coded messages, brotherly nudges. And they were honest.
In the late ’90s, Waylon’s health began to decline. Diabetes, complications from years of hard living, and the slow toll of age caught up with him. Willie was there—quietly, without fanfare. He visited, called, sent songs. And when Waylon passed in 2002, it was Willie who spoke at the memorial, standing in a black suit, braid over his shoulder.
“He made fun of me,” Willie said with a chuckle. “He made fun of everyone. But he loved me—and I knew it every damn day.”
Legacy in Lyrics
Today, the line lives on—not just as a lyric, but as a symbol of a friendship that shaped an era of music. Young artists quote it. Fans tattoo it. And every now and then, someone asks: “Did Willie ever get mad?”
The answer, always, is no.
Because beneath the jab was a truth deeper than prayer: two men, so different, bound by the same love for honesty, music, and each other.
They were outlaws, yes. But more than that—they were storytellers. And in that single lyric, Waylon Jennings told a story only Willie could truly understand.